Emotion (Dys)Regulation and Symptoms and Treatment Options

What Is Emotion Dysregulation and Regulation?

Emotional dysregulation and emotional regulation are two concepts related to the management and control of emotions. Here's how they differ:

  1. Emotional Regulation:

    • Emotional regulation refers to the ability to effectively manage and modulate one's emotional responses in a healthy and adaptive manner.

    • Individuals who possess strong emotional regulation skills are able to recognize and understand their emotions, regulate the intensity and duration of emotional responses, and express their feelings appropriately in different situations.

    • Emotional regulation involves strategies such as cognitive reappraisal (changing one's perspective on a situation), emotion suppression (temporarily inhibiting emotional expression), and seeking social support to cope with emotional experiences.

  2. Emotional Dysregulation:

    • Emotional dysregulation, on the other hand, refers to difficulties in managing and controlling one's emotions. It involves a lack of adaptive coping strategies and an inability to regulate emotional responses effectively.

    • People who experience emotional dysregulation may have intense and unpredictable emotional reactions that are disproportionate to the situation. They may struggle to identify and label their emotions accurately, leading to difficulties in understanding and managing their feelings.

    • Emotional dysregulation is often associated with various mental health conditions such as borderline personality disorder, depression, anxiety disorders, and trauma-related disorders.

In summary, while emotional regulation entails the ability to manage emotions effectively, emotional dysregulation involves difficulties in regulating emotions, which can lead to significant distress and impairment in daily functioning. Please contact us today if you would like to begin your therapeutic journey!

Emotion Dysregulation Treatment with Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT)


Emotion-focused therapy (EFT) is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping individuals become more aware of, understand, and regulate their emotions. When treating emotional dysregulation with EFT, therapists typically employ several key techniques and interventions:

  1. Emotion Awareness and Expression:

    • The therapist helps the individual develop greater awareness of their emotions, including identifying and labeling them accurately. This may involve exploring past experiences and current triggers that evoke strong emotional reactions.

    • Encouraging the expression of emotions in a safe and supportive therapeutic environment is crucial. This may involve verbal expression, journaling, art therapy, or other creative means of exploring and processing emotions.

  2. Emotion Regulation Skills Training:

    • EFT focuses on teaching individuals adaptive emotion regulation strategies to manage intense or overwhelming emotions more effectively. This may include techniques such as deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, mindfulness meditation, and grounding techniques.

    • The therapist helps the individual develop a repertoire of coping skills to use when experiencing distressing emotions, empowering them to respond to emotional triggers in healthier ways.

  3. Exploration of Emotional Schemas:

    • Emotional dysregulation often stems from underlying emotional schemas or patterns of thinking and behaving that contribute to the difficulty in managing emotions. EFT involves exploring these schemas, which may have developed in response to past experiences or relationships.

    • Through exploration and reflection, individuals gain insight into how their emotional schemas influence their current emotional experiences and interpersonal relationships.

  4. Emotion Processing and Transformation:

    • EFT focuses on facilitating the processing and transformation of maladaptive emotions. This may involve revisiting and reprocessing past emotional experiences that contribute to emotional dysregulation, with the goal of integrating and resolving unresolved emotions.

    • Techniques such as imagery rescripting, chair work, and two-chair dialogues may be used to help individuals work through and make sense of their emotional experiences.

  5. Building Emotional Competence and Resilience:

    • EFT aims to enhance emotional competence and resilience by helping individuals develop greater emotional awareness, regulation, and flexibility. This involves learning to tolerate and navigate a wide range of emotions without becoming overwhelmed or reactive.

    • Through the therapeutic process, individuals develop the skills and confidence to cope with emotional challenges more effectively, ultimately leading to improved emotional well-being and interpersonal functioning.

Overall, emotion-focused therapy provides a structured and supportive framework for addressing emotional dysregulation, helping individuals develop greater emotional awareness, regulation, and resilience in the face of life's challenges. Please contact us today if you would like to begin your therapeutic journey!

Emotion Dysregulation Treatment with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)


Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is another widely used approach in treating emotional dysregulation. Here's how CBT can be applied to address emotional dysregulation:

  1. Identifying and Understanding Triggers:

    • The therapist works with the individual to identify specific situations, events, thoughts, or memories that trigger emotional dysregulation. By understanding the triggers, the individual becomes better equipped to recognize and manage them effectively.

  2. Cognitive Restructuring:

    • CBT involves challenging and modifying maladaptive thought patterns and cognitive distortions that contribute to emotional dysregulation. This may include techniques such as cognitive restructuring, where individuals learn to identify and challenge irrational or unhelpful thoughts associated with intense emotions.

    • By replacing negative or distorted thoughts with more balanced and realistic ones, individuals can reduce the intensity of their emotional responses and improve their ability to cope with challenging situations.

  3. Emotion Regulation Skills Training:

    • CBT teaches individuals practical strategies and skills for regulating their emotions more effectively. This may include techniques such as relaxation training, mindfulness meditation, and emotion regulation exercises.

    • By learning to recognize and regulate their emotional responses, individuals can develop greater emotional resilience and cope more adaptively with stressors and triggers.

  4. Behavioral Activation:

    • CBT often incorporates behavioral activation techniques to help individuals engage in activities that promote positive emotions and well-being. By increasing participation in rewarding and pleasurable activities, individuals can counteract negative emotional states and build a sense of mastery and accomplishment.

    • Behavioral activation also helps individuals develop healthier coping mechanisms and alternative ways of responding to emotional distress.

  5. Exposure Therapy:

    • For individuals with emotional dysregulation stemming from trauma or specific phobias, exposure therapy may be utilized to gradually confront and desensitize them to feared stimuli or traumatic memories. This helps individuals learn to tolerate and process distressing emotions in a controlled and supportive environment.

  6. Interpersonal Skills Training:

    • CBT may include interpersonal skills training to improve communication, assertiveness, and conflict resolution skills. Strengthening interpersonal relationships and social support networks can buffer against emotional dysregulation and enhance overall well-being.

  7. Homework Assignments and Self-Monitoring:

    • Between therapy sessions, individuals may be assigned homework exercises to practice and reinforce skills learned in therapy. This could include keeping a mood journal, practicing relaxation techniques, or implementing coping strategies in real-life situations.

    • Self-monitoring helps individuals track their progress, identify patterns in their emotional experiences, and apply therapeutic techniques in everyday life.

Overall, CBT provides a structured and evidence-based approach to treating emotional dysregulation by targeting underlying cognitive and behavioral factors contributing to emotional distress. Through collaboration with a therapist and active participation in therapy, individuals can develop effective coping skills and achieve lasting improvements in emotional regulation. Please contact us today if you would like to begin your therapeutic journey!

Emotion Dysregulation Treatment with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on acceptance of difficult emotions, mindfulness techniques, and commitment to values-based actions. Here's how ACT can be applied to treat emotional dysregulation:

  1. Mindfulness Skills:

    • ACT emphasizes mindfulness techniques to help individuals develop present-moment awareness of their thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations without judgment. By practicing mindfulness, individuals learn to observe their emotions with openness and curiosity, rather than becoming entangled in them.

    • Mindfulness exercises such as mindful breathing, body scans, and sensory awareness help individuals cultivate a non-reactive stance towards their emotions, allowing them to respond more effectively to emotional experiences.

  2. Values Clarification:

    • ACT encourages individuals to identify their core values and what matters most to them in life. By clarifying their values, individuals gain clarity about their priorities and goals, which can serve as a guide for making decisions and taking meaningful action.

    • Emphasizing values-based action helps individuals focus on behaviors that align with their values, even in the presence of difficult emotions. This promotes a sense of purpose and fulfillment, enhancing psychological well-being and resilience.

  3. Defusion Techniques:

    • Defusion techniques in ACT involve creating distance from distressing thoughts and emotions by recognizing them as passing events rather than absolute truths. By learning to "defuse" from their thoughts, individuals can reduce their impact on emotions and behaviors.

    • Metaphors, humor, and experiential exercises are often used to help individuals see their thoughts as simply mental events, rather than accurate reflections of reality.

  4. Acceptance of Emotions:

    • ACT promotes acceptance of all emotions, including uncomfortable or distressing ones, as natural and unavoidable aspects of human experience. Instead of trying to suppress or avoid emotions, individuals learn to make space for them and allow them to come and go without resistance.

    • Acceptance involves acknowledging and validating one's emotional experiences without judgment or criticism. By adopting an attitude of acceptance towards emotions, individuals can reduce emotional avoidance and develop greater emotional resilience.

  5. Committed Action:

    • ACT encourages individuals to take committed action towards their goals and values, even in the presence of difficult emotions. This involves setting meaningful goals based on values and taking concrete steps to pursue them, regardless of emotional discomfort or uncertainty.

    • Through committed action, individuals build confidence in their ability to cope with emotional challenges and live a meaningful and fulfilling life.

  6. Experiential Exercises and Metaphors:

    • ACT often utilizes experiential exercises and metaphors to illustrate key concepts and facilitate insight and behavior change. These may include mindfulness exercises, role-playing, and creative visualization techniques designed to promote experiential learning and understanding.

By integrating these principles and techniques, ACT helps individuals develop psychological flexibility, which enables them to adaptively respond to emotional experiences and live in accordance with their values and aspirations. ACT does not aim to eliminate emotions or achieve permanent emotional control but rather to cultivate a more flexible and compassionate relationship with them. Please contact us today if you would like to begin your therapeutic journey!